Asking for TOO Much

 

One man’s “You’re asking for too much” is another man’s “That’s it?” It’s a simple truth that reveals so much about a person’s character and capacity to love. What feels like an unreasonable demand to one man...the desire for respect, consistency, honesty, and genuine care....is just the bare minimum to another man who knows what it means to truly value a woman.

Some men shrink at the thought of meeting those basic needs because it challenges their laziness, their selfishness, or their fear of real commitment. They want less from you because they’re not willing to give more of themselves. 

They see your boundaries and your worth as burdens, instead of blessings.

But then there are men who see those “asks” as the foundation of a real partnership. They don’t flinch at your standards....they appreciate them. 

They understand that love isn’t about grand gestures or fairy tale moments; it’s about showing up, day after day, doing the little things that build trust and security. To them, your “too much” is simply the right amount. It’s the respect you deserve, the care you crave, and the love you should never settle for less than

So never apologize for what you want. The right man won’t question your needs or make you feel like a burden. Instead, he’ll meet you there with open arms, grateful to give you everything you’ve been asking for. Because to him, it’s not asking for too much at all....it’s exactly what love looks like.

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